What Can You Do To Get Him Back
Author: +Freddie Cook
So… what did you do? Forget his birthday? Forget his Mother’s Birthday?… Oooh, you did the dirty with one of his mates?
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Well then, that could be awkward…
I suppose your biggest question is: “How am I going to reconcile that?”
Well, first of all stop feeling so guilty. Whatever happened, you were both at fault to some degree. Yeah, you acted in a moment of weakness, but let’s face it, it’s his fault he chooses mates that are so good looking, and it’s his fault he has a mate that’s willing to steal his gf – or something similar…
Do you think that argument might work?
What if HE’d cheated on YOU? What could he do or say to get you to forgive him and trust him again?
Would saying sorry cut it? How about texting you every 5 minutes? Getting down on his knees and pleading forgiveness? Begging you to take him back and promising nothing like that will ever happen again?
What about buying you flowers, a new dress, an ocean going yacht? Would any kind of gift do?
He could always try following you around, being at every party or social event you’re at, being in your face 24/7… would that work?
Then there’s always going out with some other girl, parading her in front of you… make you jealous. Yeah, that’d bring you running back… wouldn’t it?
Well, at least we’re getting somewhere, if it wouldn’t work with you… it’s just as unlikely to work with your ex.
At least now you know what to avoid doing.
So what’s left?
Well, it just so happens that there is something you can do after all… click here, especially if you have been trying any of those BAD tactics.
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Alternatively, if you don’t think that would work, then simply… apologize – just once, but do it sincerely… and mean it.
Too many times, after people say “I’m sorry,” there’s an “Oops I did it again,” moment. You’re not Britney Spears. It’s not cute. When you say you are sorry, whatever the problem, you have to commit to changing…
… Otherwise, you don’t mean it and you won’t get your ex back for long.
Be prepared to chase him a little bit. This doesn’t mean sending him hundreds of text messages or stalking him, but you have got to show him that you are still interested if you want to get your guy back again.
You can’t expect him to come running back just because you have sent out some hints that you are ready to re-start the relationship. Put your ego in check and put your heart on the line.
You may have to settle for something less than you wanted. It may be that he is only ready to be friends when you want a full fledged boyfriend.
It may take time to rebuild the trust. If this is the case, you need to give him the space he needs to get to know you again. Accept that you have to take what he is offering right now if you want to eventually get him back.
Finally, you have to know when to give up on this effort to get your ex boyfriend back… Sometimes, you just have to be realistic… If your boyfriend is unable to forgive you, or he can’t get past whatever problem has come between you, then the best thing you can do is move on… find a new relationship.
While this will be painful right now, it may be the best thing that could have happened to you. Whatever went wrong in this relationship, your soul mate is still out there. Managing to get your ex boyfriend back may stop you from meeting him!